How To Deal With The Rudeness of Strangers
For all its difficulties, expensive accessories, and judgmental inquiries, breastfeeding my babies brought me a sense of satisfaction, calm, and relaxation unique unto itself.
This is not to say that I never encountered invasive and ignorant strangers. It is lawful to breastfeed in any public place where food is served or allowed. You probably don’t want to get into a conversation with a rude person who makes a comment while your feeding your baby. It can’t be good f0r the letdown, so ignoring the remark and turning your head the other way is best.
But if they persist, however well-meaning they may (or may not) be, tell them any of the following (these go from tame to mildly tenacious):
1. “Please take up your concern with the management.”
2. “I’m not in the habit of taking advice from strangers, thanks.”
3. “Please be courteous and allow my child to eat.”
4. “Oh,” (in a surprised tone, like something just dawned on you) “you must not be aware of the law, which allows babies to eat anywhere you can. Now you are. Have a good day.”
5. “Did your mother refuse to feed you as a child?”
Okay, so maybe the last one’s a bit cheeky. But it takes only one invasive remark to transport most moms from meek to militant on this subject. Where ever you are on this spectrum, make the process as easy as possible with friendly places, cozy spaces, and snug ring slings, then shut the world out feed your baby in peace.
- See more at: http://www.babyinasling.com/articles/slings-make-for-easy-breastfeeding-in-public-places.php#sthash.NzCtyDSi.dpuf
No comments:
Post a Comment